When I was pregnant with my daughter, my husband and I booked a two-week trip to Italy (Rome and Tuscany) several months ahead of time, so that by the time we actually traveled, our baby five months old. How daring and naive that we weren't even parents yet and there we were planning our first "family" vacation. Who knew what it would be like to travel with an infant? Not us, that's for sure.
The weeks prior to the trip--long after the baby had arrived--we had an inkling as to the chaos we were in for, and we were filled with apprehension. You can imagine our delight, then, when we discovered that a carrying around a cute little baby in Italy is like having a special hall pass; you can tour the country as no regular tourist can.
I think it made us more approachable than we might otherwise have
been. It was a conversation starter; we could hook in to the
universality of being a mother and father. Of course, it didn't hurt that my
daughter, at the time, was chubby enough to pass for any one of the frescoed cherubs fluttering about cathedral ceilings and walls. Shopkeepers bent down to pinch her cheeks: "Bellissima, bimba bella". Old men
greeted her at stop signs: "Faccia carina ..." Others pointed us in
the direction of diapers and baby food and any other items we might
need. Our hotel in Rome set up a portable crib for her, and another mom
and pop pensione in Montelpuciano pulled out the family high chair for
her each morning while we ate our breakfast. The Italians, in general, were welcoming of families.No one looked askance at us when we took out baby to dinner. Our daughter destroys a breadstick into a million crumbs across the restaurant table? - Not a problem. The attitude we encountered while traveling with an infant in tow most often felt like: "Hey, great, you brought the baby!"
During pregnancy, we all worry about the things that we will miss about our pre-baby lives. For me one of these was definitely the ability to travel. Our trip proved that, though the itinerary might change, traveling with children could be an opportunity to experience a country in a new way, see it through a new lens.




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