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Is Unassisted Childbirth Criminally Irresponsible?

brar01_birthplans.jpgSalon.com
June 23, 2009


"In a thought-provoking article published Sunday on Salon, Frances Kissling, former President of Catholics for a Free Choice, asked: "If pro-choice advocates follow the example of those opposed to abortion and present only one value -- a women's right to make this decision -- as the only ethical consideration worth discussing in difficult cases, do we not become as extremist as we say they are? Is there not, in an ethical sense, an important weighing of women's rights and needs against a respect for life, even the life of nonpersons? Is there a point in pregnancy when our respect for life might outweigh a woman's right to make this choice?" The solidly pro-choice answers are no, no, and no. Insisting that women must be allowed to control their own bodies and make their own decisions is the opposite of dogmatism; it's a position that supports human liberty rather than restricting it. (And the framing of "respect for life" and "respect for the woman" as opposing forces implies that respect for life does not encompass respect for grown women, which is problematic, to say the least.) But what happens when we ask those same questions about issues of reproductive freedom other than abortion? What happens when we ask them about women who are so radically pro-life they'll endanger their own and their children's health in order to leave God in charge of their family planning?"

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Why Are We Pitting Men Against Women?

090622_martin_lead.jpgThe American Prospect
June 22, 2009

"Just in time for Father's Day, Men's Health editor-in-chief David Zincenko penned a USA Today op-ed heralding the "Great He-cession" as one more example of how men are "an endangered species." Citing statistics about men's declining job security, shorter life span, and lack of government attention, he pits women against men in a delusional race for resources. He writes: "Let's think about men. It's about time we caught a break, and a he-covery would be just the thing." As if thinking about men would be a big societal shift.

Zincenko's ingratiating use of cutesy prefixes and total neglect of historical fact aside, this sort of polarized punditry is exactly what keeps both men and women from making true progress. The truth is our fates are inextricably tied together, not running on two parallel tracks. When men lose their jobs -- and, indeed, they have at a higher rate than women recently -- American families all suffer, just as they suffer when women are paid unequal wages or fired for missing work to take care of sick kids or an elderly parent. Newsflash: Men aren't from Mars and women aren't from Venus; we're all struggling to make healthy, meaningful lives on the same damn planet -- and it's time we started acting like it."


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