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Painter and blogger Kimberley Laurenti lives in Punta Gorda, Florida, with her husband, Tony, and son, Enzo, whom she calls "the two loves of my life." But despite Kimberley's sunny outlook, she also has a darker side to her aesthetic. We love her evocative portraits, which seem plucked right from a Grimm's fairy tale. Let's peek inside...
What's it like to live in Florida?
My family moved here from New York when I was 12. I hated it for a long time; I still kind of do. It's extremely hot; you don't get seasons since the summer is ten months a year. But my family is here, and I love them, and I think it's important for Enzo to be here. I'm trying to be less complain-y about it as I get older. I like the town and like things about it. But holy crap, it's hot.
Your living room doesn't have that typical Florida beach-y look.
My style is weird and gloomy. Sometimes, in Florida, we'll be outside playing, and it will be so bright, it's almost overwhelming. When I open the door to our living room, it's like our cool, air-conditioned cave. The curtains are from Target.
Who's in the painting?
My husband Tony and my son Enzo. They're my muses.
Your artwork has an awesome dark feel.
I like uniqueness in a painting--not creepy, but whatever the nice word is for creepy. If I painted a couple, for example, I'd want them holding a clay figure or something; I wouldn't just do a normal family portrait. So people have to be secure in my style, not say, "Look, their teeth aren't white enough."
Where did that dark side come from?
Great question. Even as a little kid, I was into R-rated movies. My parents wouldn't let me watch them until I was 17, so I'd go out and get all the scary books that the movies were based on. They were a million times worse!
I love the name Enzo!
Enzo has such an Italian name--Enzo Laurenti--but he's fair skinned with blonde hair. My husband is Italian, and I'm typical whitey--German mostly. Luckily, our son is big on personality, so he fills the name out.
What's it like to raise a boy?
Enzo is all boy. They're so physical. When I play with him, I set up little scenes in a quiet way, like I did when I was little, but he's so physical, it's almost startling. His idea of fun is batting a bat against a plant. When I was a little girl, I held toys close; he does the flying around thing.
Yes, boys and girls can be really different.
I always thought I was a guys' girl, but now I'm like, holy crap! It's different when you're around a crazy little boy.
Well, Enzo does have a stove.
Yes, Enzo is getting into cooking. My husband and I are excited because we love wooden foods! All his friends like playing with it -- both boys and girls.
That's so cute.
We give them menus, and they come out and ask us what we'd like to fake-order. Sometimes it's annoying because we'll have friends over and the kids will be coming out every two seconds to say, "What would you like, Ma'am?"
What do you usually eat as a family?
We're into Thai food right now. We're lucky: Enzo goes along with everything we eat. His favorite meal is tilapia and wild rice.
Why did you decide to start a blog?
We live in a small, very conservative town with lots of retirees. The blog community gives me glimpses into the creative world beyond where I am.
Tell us about this lair.
The lair is behind my mom's house, a couple miles away. I've declared it "Lair Tuesday," so we'll go there every Tuesday. There are big pathways with branches overhead, and two main "rooms" with chairs. My sisters and I sit there and decide what to work on next, maybe a swing. Even my mom hangs out. Other families might find it strange, but we love it.
Wow, that's fantastic.
I always feel like I'm the luckiest person. I don't think that life could get any better. I always say to Enzo, "Enzo, we are so lucky and have the best life!" Sometimes we're sitting with a picnic outside, and he'll lean back and say, "Mommy! It doesn't get any better than this!" And it's true: Sitting outside on a beautiful day, with a little guy, the love of your life, on a little picnic.
3:06 PM,
July 25, 2008